Shabestan news agency reported that the representative of supreme leader in south Khurasan Ayatollah Syed Ali Reza Abedi talked to the students of Safeeran e Hedayat institute. He said that we should control our wishes.
He added that If you observe any marriage ceremony, you will see that it is nothing but involves proposing, acceptance, announcement, witnesses, guardian, dowry, celebration, gifts and exchanged congratulations, because it is a legitimate matter, but what is the core of marriage contract? It is a legitimate paper that allows a sexual relationship between the husband and wife, and because it is done according to Allah’s method, they both rise with it.
This marriage is the legitimate way to have a son or a daughter who fills the house with happiness, and who is raised and reared to be a respectful person; a caller to Allah, a doctor, a professor, a merchant, or an industrial man. This son or daughter, if brought up on Islam and manners, would be generous, disciplined, honest, and trustful. That family would have perfect offspring, but the basis of that project was a sexual relationship. On the other hand, adultery is also a sexual relationship but it leads to scandal, disgrace, and lapse.
Once a friend told me, that he heard a knock on his door at 4:00 AM. When he opened the door, he found no one, but a sack with something moving in it. It was a new-born baby (an outcome of illegal relationship), so this baby was left by the door, and the person who placed it, ran away.